
You’ve been doing everything “right”, yet she’s slipping away.
You remember the night you met her: the laughter, the spark, the way she leaned in when you held the door. You walked her home, tucked her in with a gentle kiss, and then — nothing. No callback. No good-morning text. You replay every moment, every word, convinced you must have missed something.
But here’s the hard truth no one ever told you: being “nice” is not enough. In fact, it often works against you.
The Fairy-Tale Lie of Chivalry

From the playground to the boardroom, you were taught that kindness equals success: hold the door, pay for dinner, send cute emojis at midnight. In movies, the hero wins the girl. In real life, he ends up on a dating app, competing with men who
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